I think that all of listed by you software allow to execute batch converting in some way.
ArcGIS
I can explain how is it possible to perform in ArcGIS.
- Converting of one raster JPEG2000 -> GeoTiff can be done using tool Raster To Other Format (Conversion). Don't forget to setup appropriate raster storage settings in Environment variables when running this tool.
- Running this tool in a batch mode can be done using ArcGIS batch processing function. Again don't forget about environment settings in order to get desirable results.
Erdas
I remember that in Erdas it is also possible to execute commands in batch mode. But it was some time ago and right now I don't have access to this software. Take a look at this document if you prefer to use Erdas.
Open-source solution
Also can recommend trying to use opensource solution: GDAL. Which can be executed in a batch mode by OS tools (in Win - bat, powershell for example).
Take a look at command gdal_translate - this one you need for your task.
Example:
gdal_translate -of GTiff -co COMPRESS=JPEG -co TILED=YES input.jp2 result.tif
Set correct (for your case) creation options in -co parameter.
How to run it in a batch mode you can figure from this and this available topics.