You can't, a WMS returns a picture of the map that has been rendered by the WMS server. If you want to style a layer in the client you have two choices:
- request the actual data from a WFS server and style it yourself.
- Send a SLD file to the WMS server for it to use to style the data. You can check for this option by looking for a line like:
<UserDefinedSymbolization SupportSLD="1" UserLayer="1" UserStyle="1" RemoteWFS="1"/>
in the getcapabilities response, you need UserStyle to not equal 0.
In both cases this will only work if the server in question supports that functionality.