You will not find the forest in the ways list because it is build as a multipolygon relation:
http://www.openstreetmap.org/relation/403306
Full text of the xml:
<relation id='403306' timestamp='2012-01-17T23:33:35Z' uid='302852' user='be-ju' visible='true' version='26' changeset='10423448'>
<member type='way' ref='132144354' role='outer' />
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<member type='way' ref='30605404' role='inner' />
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<tag k='landuse' v='forest' />
<tag k='note' v='c' />
<tag k='type' v='multipolygon' />
</relation>
If you have a local Postgis database filled with osm2pgsql you will find it in the planet_osm_polygon table with osm_id=-403306.
Most OSM importers still do not handle multipolygon relations correctly. If you need the way nodes, you have to download all ways that are part of the relation, then all nodes of those ways.
The members with role outer
form one or several outer rings. You can not rely on the order in the file; the last node of the first member does not have to be the first node of the second. Same goes for the inner
members.
As a consequence, you have to re-build the complete import logic of osm2pgsql. It is at least open source: https://github.com/openstreetmap/osm2pgsql
As a reference, you can take the OSM editor JOSM, and download a small part of the area of your interest.