The Torque formatter is not editable via the CartoDB Editor at this moment. In order to edit it to show a different date format you'd need to use Javascript and the CartoDB.js library.
You can check a working example here, but the key code is:
cartodb.createVis('map', 'YOUR_TORQUE_VIZJSON_URL')
.done(function(vis, layers) {
//For CartoDB.js versions 3.12 an up
var slider = vis.timeSlider;
//For CartoDB.js version 3.11
//var slider = vis.getOverlay('time_slider')
slider.formatter(function(d) {
return d.getUTCDay() + " " + d.getUTCMonth();
})
})
.error(function(err) {
console.log(err);
});
You might want to edit the line that returns the formatted line, in this case "return d.getUTCDay() + " " + d.getUTCMonth();". This StackOverflow question could be useful in this case.