I work with version arcview 10.3. I seek in data frame properties-->grid-->style - but didn't found any suitable example.
There is a Make Grids And Graticules Layer tool that may enable you to do this:
Creates a grouped layer of feature classes depicting grid, graticule, and border features using predefined cartographic specifications. Grid layers are ideal for advanced grid definitions which are scale and extent specific.
I have not used this tool personally, so you may need to experiment with it.