You need to use rules with an And Filter something like:
<sld:Rule>
<sld:Name>Style 1</sld:Name>
<sld:Abstract>Type = Ventil and Aabningsgrad = 0</sld:Abstract>
<ogc:Filter>
<ogc:And>
<ogc:PropertyIsEqualTo>
<ogc:PropertyName>type</ogc:PropertyName>
<ogc:Literal>Ventil</ogc:Literal>
</ogc:PropertyIsEqualTo>
<ogc:PropertyIsEqualTo>
<ogc:PropertyName>Aabningsgrad</ogc:PropertyName>
<ogc:Literal>0</ogc:Literal>
</ogc:PropertyIsEqualTo>
</ogc:And>
</ogc:Filter>
<sld:PolygonSymbolizer>
<sld:Fill>
<sld:CssParameter name="fill">#FFCCB3</sld:CssParameter>
</sld:Fill>
</sld:PolygonSymbolizer>
</sld:Rule>
<sld:Rule>
<sld:Name>Style 2</sld:Name>
<sld:Abstract>Type = Ventil and Aabningsgrad = 100</sld:Abstract>
<ogc:Filter>
<ogc:And>
<ogc:PropertyIsEqualTo>
<ogc:PropertyName>type</ogc:PropertyName>
<ogc:Literal>Ventil</ogc:Literal>
</ogc:PropertyIsEqualTo>
<ogc:PropertyIsEqualTo>
<ogc:PropertyName>Aabningsgrad</ogc:PropertyName>
<ogc:Literal>100</ogc:Literal>
</ogc:PropertyIsEqualTo>
</ogc:And>
</ogc:Filter>
<sld:PolygonSymbolizer>
<sld:Fill>
<sld:CssParameter name="fill">#B3CCFF</sld:CssParameter>
</sld:Fill>
</sld:PolygonSymbolizer>
</sld:Rule>