I've tried to use various interfaces to access SelectionSet of table windows/tables but all I get back is the selected records (cyan). I want the highlighted rows/features (yellow).
I would like to 1) programmatically specify the highlighted row/feature and 2) programmatically access the highlighted rows(s).
I saw some old examples on the old Esri forums where the yellow feature was manually being drawn on the map, but surely there's a way to access in ArcGIS 10?