I have PostgreSQL tables with the following columns:

Table (1)
```
| Column        | Datatype                |
| ------------- |:-----------------------:|
| group         | TEXT                    |
| geom          | Geometry (Polygon)      |
```

Table (2)
```
| Column        | Datatype     |
| ------------- |:------------:|
| group         | TEXT         |
| lat           | NUMERIC      |
| long          | NUMERIC      |
```

I want to, for every row in table (2),  **create or update** the geometry columns in the first table (1) using the `lat` and `long` where the `group` column names are matching. Apologies if something like this has been answered before but I could not find a good example. I've tried queries like below (I know its wrong) but I can't seem to figure out how to use the PostGIS functions to get the behavior I want...

```
UPDATE TABLE_1
SET geom = st_setsrid(
    st_makepolygon(
        st_makeline(
            geom, st_makepoint(longitude, latitude)
        )
    ),
4269)
from (
     select
        long as longitude,
        lat as latitude,
        group
      from TABLE_2
) as subquery
where group = TABLE_1.group;

```

**From discussion in comments:**

Preferably, the `geom` column should be a polygon (if there are 4 or more points), if less than 4 it should just be a collection of points. Essentially I am trying to create my own geometries from some latitude and longitude data I have. Also I am using: `WGS 84, EPSG 4326`