I guess for osm2po "referenced nodes" are nodes which are part of a way.
In OSM XML each way has a list of referenced nodes, defined via <nd ref=""/>
attributes:
<node id="298884269" lat="54.0901746" lon="12.2482632" user="SvenHRO" uid="46882" visible="true" version="1" changeset="676636" timestamp="2008-09-21T21:37:45Z"/>
...
<way id="26659127" user="Masch" uid="55988" visible="true" version="5" changeset="4142606" timestamp="2010-03-16T11:47:08Z">
<nd ref="292403538"/>
<nd ref="298884289"/>
...
<nd ref="261728686"/>
<tag k="highway" v="unclassified"/>
<tag k="name" v="Pastower Straße"/>
</way>